Literally these things are a dream come true. Long enough to tie to the four posts on a king bed and strong while still being delicate. The loops aren’t meant to be the wrist strap, you slip the other side through the whole and make the strap adjustable to what fits for you. Before I purchased I saw a lot of people say it was too small so I figured I would add that in. I purposefully tried to break these as well as tried to injur my wrist (figured it was better controlled than in the moment!) but the straps were so strong and still no marks on my wrists. Amazing product!!I have yet to use these in the bedroom, but they seem pretty nice. A few people mentioned that the wristloops are too small, but after toying with them for a bit a realized they arent wristholes at all. You're supposed to use them to make a slipknot type around your wrists so they're adjustable to anyone's handsize. Theyre actually very comfortable.These are great for some quick fun and you take them anywhere. The loop on the end is to pass the rest of the tie through to make like a snare or slip knot. DO NOT try to insert your partners hand inside the loop. My girl loves these. Secure but soft and like the lace. I recommend them for light play times and a quick session,I was worried they would be scratchy and cheap but they are pretty good!My wrists and hands are very small but these straps are for super small hands to fit through them. They aren't adjustable but the material is soft and they feel nicer than some of the other ones that I've ordered.The loops on the ends are very small and some length is lost making an effective tie. Better for arms than legs on queen size.not as soft as they should beThe loops for quick attachment are great! These ties are welcoming enough for beginners and durable enough for moderate play.